The Emerald Girl

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Friday, May 13, 2016

Death and social media



I'll try to be brief. Mostly because it's Matt's turn to sleep in tomorrow and for some reason I always feel the most compelled to write late at night.

I've been thinking about death lately. As a beautiful women recently passed. Someone I did not know at all. Social media has a bittersweet way of reminding us all that death is always near. Social media, voyeristic by nature, allows outsiders a rather intimate look into lives of those who have passed and those affected. It's interesting because, I think, a long time ago death was much more a part of the culture. Death really wasn't far away. It was experienced. Today, death is very removed from our society (unless, of course, it hits your circle). We may hear about it on the news or magazine covers but we don't feel it. I'm grateful for Instagram for reminding me that beautiful people are dying and that beautiful people are left without their loved ones. It sounds dark but for me it's a reminder that death happens and to love those around me deeply. To love my husband and my children profoundly. I may not get tomorrow. We are not promised even another minute on Earth. 

I also believe social media gives us a responsibility to pray never ceasing for other people. To pray for people we've never known because we see them, they have names and they tell us their stories. 

Anyway, I don't want to think about death. But I want to hold tight to never taking my life and the people I hold closest for granted. 

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