The Emerald Girl

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Wednesday, January 29, 2014

How to Make Your Husband Fulfill All of Your Life Dreams

This is probably one of the biggest skills I learned in 2013 and it has been one of the most successful tools to having a happy marriage that I have found to date. The answer is simple: don't have any expectations. I mean this in all seriousness. I don't mean that you shouldn't care about what your husband does and is going to do. You should. But place all of your expectations, hopes and dreams upon God. Not your husband. Put your trust in God and He will provide for you everything your heart desires in accordance with His will. All the things you want your husband to do, all the things you don't want him to do, all the desires you want him to have, all of the desires you don't want him to have, all your hopes, dreams and goals - just give them all to God. When you are done praying daily for the things you wish your husband would do or would be, make sure you pray that God would change your heart and fill you up with joy and gratefulness for the wonderful husband that you do have. The perfect husband that He created just for you. Then pray that God would show you, teach you and mold you into the wife that your husband needs and wants. Trust in God. Pray everyday. Give all of your thoughts to Him. Don't hold your husband responsible for the life that you want; ask God to give you the life He has planned for you. Pray when you are mad. Pray when you are angry. Pray when you are upset. Pray when you would really rather not. This is good work for a happy marriage. When you place your trust and place your expectations on God instead of your husband, you will find a peace that surpasses all understanding. There you have it - the answer to making your husband into the man that you want. Easy peasy.

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